People are quick to judge?

It hurts when people are quick to blame you for something they don't really know who did it and say it is you for a petty reason.
Such as an account on a website being hacked and as you are the newest member they think you are the culprit.

People get judged so quickly these days...at job interviews, the media, an outfit choice, the way you talk...all types of ways.
I wish people would get of their high horse and not cliche people up and stereotype and just get to know someone before they know if they are right for a situation or relationship (friend or more interment).

YOU CAN GET YOURSELF INTO TROUBLE BY JUMPING INTO CONCLUSIONS

Society tells you to be yourself and for why? To have the world judge you for it. Real nonsense.
In my opinion I'd love it if people could be nicer to others and not ridicule others for slightest difference they may have from themselves.
Do people do that to make themselves feel better...sadly some do...do they do it to try and fit in to social conventions....(whoever formed these I don't know).
E.g. who told us to be popular/successful you have to look and act a certain way...SOCIETY.

No two people are the same yet most of society try to squeeze you in a box and push you out the other side as cardboard clones.

People who are quick to judge you are infact the ones who can hurt you the most or do the opposite and make you strive for better and to prove them wrong. 

Letter to 12 year old me.

Dear 12 year old me,

You feel like you don't belong being the shy one sitting on the outside. Believe in yourself as life is what you make it. So, talk to those you like but, don't worry if they don't like you for who you are because people out there will. If you like them don't be afraid to show it or risk loosing people from your life that mean a lot.

Don't let those who are mean to you get to you. Be strong and happiness comes and goes in your life and don't take family for granted.
You will slowly gain confidence and achieve wonderful things as much as people feel like they're getting in your way. Carry on living how you feel is right for you and bottling up hardships will not help anyone.
You are beautiful no matter what people out there say and though you look young your cuteness and sweetness shines through to those who love you.
One tip is if you dislike something that happens like someone saying your idea is bad then do not sit quiet and let them put a stop to your idea. If you think it will work then carry on as you are beautiful and only you know what works for you.

Keep smiling through and stick by the one guy who loves you most.
Lots of hugs your 21 year old self.

Life is a game...

Life is a game we all play with rules given to us, some to be learnt and others to be followed or even broken.... AND we all dream for life to be our version of perfect but it never really is so. 

We have to learn to fit in like a jigsaw puzzle piece the best we can. 

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 There isn't really any easy way to do this life business. You can sit there and suffer in silence thinking 'I hate my life' or some other negative thought...hurting yourself is another way people cope. OR You can get off your backside and do something about whatever you dislike about life. Sitting there everyday wishing life would change in any way shape or form while going about life the same way you do everyday is stupid. It's the way many people go about life.

 Everyone is in a sea of people struggling for a place they belong. It's a game. It's unfair. It's a challenge. I am one lonely person trying to swim to the surface of the people but pushed down by the current or swarm of people leaping above me like dolphins out of the water.

 What I'm trying to say is that life is not easy even for those who you think is. (they're probably good at hiding it) If you dislike how life is going right now then try and change it. Move away from people who bring down life or change the way you think of life. p.s. I'm not saying I am winning this life game. I'm clearly stating you are not the only person who wants a perfect version of life for them.