People are quick to judge?

It hurts when people are quick to blame you for something they don't really know who did it and say it is you for a petty reason.
Such as an account on a website being hacked and as you are the newest member they think you are the culprit.

People get judged so quickly these days...at job interviews, the media, an outfit choice, the way you talk...all types of ways.
I wish people would get of their high horse and not cliche people up and stereotype and just get to know someone before they know if they are right for a situation or relationship (friend or more interment).

YOU CAN GET YOURSELF INTO TROUBLE BY JUMPING INTO CONCLUSIONS

Society tells you to be yourself and for why? To have the world judge you for it. Real nonsense.
In my opinion I'd love it if people could be nicer to others and not ridicule others for slightest difference they may have from themselves.
Do people do that to make themselves feel better...sadly some do...do they do it to try and fit in to social conventions....(whoever formed these I don't know).
E.g. who told us to be popular/successful you have to look and act a certain way...SOCIETY.

No two people are the same yet most of society try to squeeze you in a box and push you out the other side as cardboard clones.

People who are quick to judge you are infact the ones who can hurt you the most or do the opposite and make you strive for better and to prove them wrong. 

Letter to 12 year old me.

Dear 12 year old me,

You feel like you don't belong being the shy one sitting on the outside. Believe in yourself as life is what you make it. So, talk to those you like but, don't worry if they don't like you for who you are because people out there will. If you like them don't be afraid to show it or risk loosing people from your life that mean a lot.

Don't let those who are mean to you get to you. Be strong and happiness comes and goes in your life and don't take family for granted.
You will slowly gain confidence and achieve wonderful things as much as people feel like they're getting in your way. Carry on living how you feel is right for you and bottling up hardships will not help anyone.
You are beautiful no matter what people out there say and though you look young your cuteness and sweetness shines through to those who love you.
One tip is if you dislike something that happens like someone saying your idea is bad then do not sit quiet and let them put a stop to your idea. If you think it will work then carry on as you are beautiful and only you know what works for you.

Keep smiling through and stick by the one guy who loves you most.
Lots of hugs your 21 year old self.